I have never understood the whole, big hulk-like men being attractive.. I guess maybe I live in the real world, so I find real guys to be attractive. Call me crazy, but I like a guy with some gut. I can do without Brad Pitt type bodies. I like a guy who likes to take care of himself, as I like to take care of myself, but at the same time... i don't want a guy who is going to be in the gym more than he is spending time with me.. or that is downing raw eggs every morning.

I suppose it is the same as women thinking they have to be absolutely skinny with big ta-ta's in order for them to be attractive to anyone.. It all just has to do with the media and what we see everywhere.