I think love (without lust) doesn't automatically mean it's bereft of passion. So I chose love. But if you're in for a short-term gig, then go for lust! lol

I can't really see this issue as being simply a two sided coin. At this point and time I wouldn't choose love but I wouldn't choose lust either. To me there has to be a middle ground or gray area for those who don't lean fully toward one side of the spectrum.

Besides many people at a younger age aren't ready for love. Having a relationship may not be considered love but its not lust either.

This is just my interpretation of the context of each term so I could probably thinking on a different level than others.

love for my wife
lust for my gf

cant go wrong with that

about 2 cups love, 1/4 cup lust, minimum, and 2 tablespoons envy.

...Yes, you really can!