Nice boys that turn mean. - Page 3

icegoat63 · 08-15-2008, 12:26 PM

Oh man... Greatest Teenage Line Ever

"He/she Loves me and I Love him/her Back! and theres nothing you can do about it.... You just Dont understand!"

muahahaha good luck with that barbie I really do hope you're right.

Sarra91 · 08-15-2008, 12:30 PM

It seems like it could be a little early to know if you're really in love. But I can't criticize. I fell for Synyst about 10 minutes after he first talked to me. I knew it was love in less than 24 hours, and I admitted it to him soon after. I got butterflies every time we would talk, I still do. There's no age to learn about love. But you know when it happens. If you don't know.. it's not really love.

Bliss · 08-16-2008, 04:50 AM

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Originally Posted by barbiegirl14

Ok, sorry for thread, but I have to ask lol.

A short while ago, a boy I liked who was extremely nice to me; asked me to sneak out with him for 2 hours while my dad was at work. He promised that he would have me home before my dad came home.

This boy was extremely nice, and helped me with my homework and notes ALOT in school. He is super cute too lol.

Anyways, he took me out to his friends house where they are having a pool party, and playing on a big slide. When I asked to go home he said wait, and so I waited. 2 hours later I was getting really worried, so I asked again and he said wait. I asked him again and he said stop asking and then he was joking with his friends, telling them that I want to take him home so we can have s** which he was lieing. Then I asked him again, and by this point it was like super late, like 8pm and my dad had been home for ahwile. After I asked he said ok. But then he didn't. I fell asleep at like 11 on this kids couch, and woke up at 3am to find him STILL partying with his stupid friends.

He didn't get me home untill 4am. That is why im grounded..

I guess my question is; how is it that a boy can be so extremely completely nice, and then totally change into some stupid evil boy. I know he hadn't any care about me, and I know he spent alot more time with his friends. I don't understand why he would beg me to come along with him so much, and then completely leave me stranded. I don't mean to make it sound like boys are bad, but if any of you boys could explain to me his thought process.

It's just weird. He seemed so completely nice. It's like, how can I trust another boy after this. I mean how do I know that that boy isn't exactly like him.

Anyways, sorry for the drama. If any of you boys could show me your thought process, and point of view toward this, that would be really nice.

8pm!! OmG'z I can't believe you were out so late.

You're at the age where people like to impress their friends. You should have called home as soon as you felt like you didn't want to be there.

As for you thinking you're in love, you're just deluded. You have a lot of growing up to do and you have a lot to learn about life. You're not in love, believe me.

Syndicate · 08-16-2008, 05:54 AM

The only people out at 8pm are granny beaters, prostitutes and the homeless. Plus my little Blissy does her weekly late night Friday shopping runs. Remember that time you came back without any shopping? That was weird! lol.

Boy does not equal man, so most won't treat you like one. They need a few slaps before they learn the path of the righteous one. If he's not learning fast, jump ship.

Let's not rule out the other option: he was high as a kite. You know kids these days with their pea shooters, alchomopops and their whacky backy. He could have been on a massive downer and oblivious to the world.

Yours sincerely,

Agony Aunt Synd.

kajinpl · 08-17-2008, 08:37 AM

OK, barbiegirl, this is a good time for you to start seeing people for who they really are. I know you probably feel like you're in love with the guy, but if he really loved you then he would do everything that he could not to screw things up with you. It's a high probability that he's a wolf in sheep's clothing and I've seen it done time and time and time again. People can find love at any age, but if you follow your heart too much with someone a bit "iffy" you will get your heart broken and that's something you want to experience very often.

English-Emo-Boy · 08-17-2008, 01:26 PM

I'm guessing there was alcohol involved. That's generally when people change.

barbiegirl14 · 08-17-2008, 04:56 PM

Lol no. There wasn't because I asked and he said there wasn't.

Please don't be mad, but you guys don't understand...

English-Emo-Boy · 08-17-2008, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by barbiegirl14

Lol no. There wasn't because I asked and he said there wasn't.

I'll let you into a little secret. Us guys lie like hell.

We don't understand?
Like none of us have been in similar situations where we've stayed out late with members of the opposite sex.

BigBlue · 08-23-2008, 04:33 AM

The guys a jerk, girls naturally keep crawling back for the guys that act like jerks and thats how it works.

UnfinishedSymphon · 09-04-2008, 01:21 PM

He wanted to hook up with you that's why he was nice to you. Would you "love" him or hang out with him if he was nasty to you? Jerks can be nice when they want to be. But its false (acting)! A few nice acts doesn't make a nice guy. Its called manipulation, Barbie and its one of the lessons that a nice (but naive) girl like you need to learn. There are some GENUINELY NICE GUYS around but there are also plenty of ****S WHO KNOW HOW TO BE NICE WHEN THEY WANT.

Ask yourself when judging a guy is he mostly nice but messes up sometimes or is he nasty but nice when he wants.

ASSHOLES that are nice SOMETIMES are not being NICE TO YOU they are being NICE TO THEMSELVES.