Dude, please read my post again. I'm just telling you (since you don't seem to get it) that normality is not a solid definition, it varies from person to person. Like I said already, anal is normal to some and strange and gross to others. Doesn't make either side right or wrong.

I'm fairly confident that i'm right.

There is no "right".

Okay okay, i suppose i should be more understanding towards other peoples opinions.

I guess i meant to say that for me anal sex isn't so weird. But that maybe sounds like i engage in it a lot, which isn't the case.

All I'm trying to get you to hear is that just because something is normal to you, won't make it normal for everyone else. Take for instance this car of yours. It's normal for you, but for a middle class family like my own, it's quite out of the ordinary.

If we have to base all of our posts on what you find interesting this board would die quickly. Like stated before everyone has different tastes and fantasies to some theyare way out there for others it is simple stuff.

One I have had is to meet a woman out in public, go back to her place and get caught by her husband or boyfriend walking in on us and instead of getting angry he walks over and starts to engage with her while watching me with her as well. That one and about 100 others lol.

I'd say soften her up with a nice gift or gifts before dropping a mario brothers script in her lap.

Off the top of my head... A swim in a rocky cove followed by sex on the Goonies Pirate ship, and in a classroom. Both at the same time

Some people aren't into crazy kinky stuff. A fantasy can be anything you want - they're not sharing them with you to try and impress you. Biting, handcuffs and threesomes are some of the most common fantasies out there and you don't have the right to tell someone what they put isn't good enough.

You're not as smart as you make out.

Physical interaction doesn't even need to be a part of the fantasy. Sure The visualizations come in to play but what about fantasizing about the emotion, about the passion. Thats's where everything just comes in sync. YOu have WHAT happens, and you have the how and the why.

Coming home form the job, she's cutting fruit, whearing boy shorts and one of my t shirts. Hair down, mouth a smile. Then I see her eyes up close. Then comes the embrace, the embrace that has been so far and wide in between. The senses assault. The skin, the hair, those lips. Then her petite frame and athletic build, paired with that awe inspiring look. I am thrust into the wall. the sign come for lifting, and then onto the bed. Passion, Loving Passion, then the show of love known as sex. Now that's a fantasy froma man who murders Time.

Sexual fantasies are learned, so not everyone is going to be extreme and the more you're exposed to, the more you'll discover. People are simply afraid to be called strange.