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Old 08-18-2008, 04:10 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Really?
I've spent most of my life in an all-boys school! I don't have any experience with girls at all! I'm 100% straight, despite going to an all-boys school, but don't really know how to talk to the opposite sex which proves a problem.
Dont expect it to be like the movies buddy.

Good luck.

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Old 08-18-2008, 05:15 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Quote from a bumpersticker on facebook: All a girl wants is just one guy to show her they're not all the same.

To approach this girl, I guess you could find some common interest and start hanging out with that as your foundation.
Good idea. What's the best way to find a common interest? General chat?
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Dont expect it to be like the movies buddy.

Good luck.
I wish it was.

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Old 08-18-2008, 07:08 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Old 08-18-2008, 08:14 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Good idea. What's the best way to find a common interest? General chat?
Ask questions, show you're interested. Find a common interest by asking questions. What kind of music does she like? Does she like to read? Good subjects in school?

Himeko: I can change a tire.
Himeko: Oh yeah. So my dad took the flat into this tire place
Himeko: And they tried to see why it went flat
Jeanie: awesome
Jeanie: that you can change it
Jeanie: ya big dyke

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Old 08-18-2008, 08:28 PM   #15 (permalink)
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honestly all women want is someone to listen to them. Someone who cares about how there day went. Someone who isnt afraid to be thems selves, and confidence is a big thing. But if it turns out that she cant like you for you then move on.
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Old 08-18-2008, 11:45 PM   #16 (permalink)
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In my experience, each women is different even twins much like the snowflake theory. There may be some similar qualities but each one is supposed to be different for the most part. And half the fun is finding out what makes them different. Chances are a women will be able to tell if she likes you pretty early on in knowing you, though some women rather enjoy being chased or shown why you are better than the next man. That is the real "key" though, understanding that even a girl who will hook up with you right away controls the tempo. If you are having trouble talking to women, nip the problem in the butt, just talk to women. It could be as simple as saying "Hi", but everyday make sure you speak to a women or approach a stranger to get your comfort zone perfected. While some women may find it cute if you are the shy type (not saying you are), it usually helps to be naturally comfortable to be able to talk to any women just to be used to it. So I don't know anything about this girl you like specifically, but I do know if you don't talk to her, the odds of something happening between you are not in your favor at all. And in general it's all about increasing your odds, which unlike gambling, you have some control over. I know you're young but if it doesn't make sense to you today it might someday.

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Old 08-19-2008, 11:54 AM   #17 (permalink)
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To be interesting, be interested. Talk to her, ask questions, listen to her. This benefits you too because you'll find out more about her. It would be nice to have a good sense of humor too and keep the conversation light...not stalkerish or FBI-ish interrogation type when you ask her questions.

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Old 08-20-2008, 05:38 AM   #18 (permalink)
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I know you're young but if it doesn't make sense to you today it might someday.
Yeah, I understand. It makes loads of sense. Thanks.
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To be interesting, be interested. Talk to her, ask questions, listen to her. This benefits you too because you'll find out more about her. It would be nice to have a good sense of humor too and keep the conversation light...not stalkerish or FBI-ish interrogation type when you ask her questions.
Good point. Thanks!

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Old 08-20-2008, 06:40 AM   #19 (permalink)
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Be confident, strong, solid, and clean. Then ask her to go to busch gardens or some water park with you. Make sure your tan though... pale people look odd lol.
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What should I be honest about?
Everything, with moderation. I mean, you don't want to tell her that, for example, you don't like football and then further down in the relationship (provided it gets that far) she realizes that you go to all the games.

On the other hand, you don't want to immediately tell her all the boring stuff, or, say, that stockings turn you on. Some information is best kept quiet, at least temporarily.

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