my rents have been together for 7 years... (not my real dad)
my stpd has all of a sudden chosen to hate me and told my mom, him or me. My rents are now splitting up because of it. They are not getting a divorce being as how they were never married. --the arguements are in more detail in blog-- I am now trying to be there for my mom... I am really not sure how I can help. I feel rather guilty, although directly its not my fault, my stpd is leaving my mom because of me. He hates the fact that I am gay.

any advice? or even an experience?

He's just using the fact that you're gay as more reasons. It can't all be your fault.

Just stay away and let them solve it themselves and be there for your mother.

Don't feel guilty. People just don't split because of one reason (although it's easier for you to think you're to blame). Think of it as the "tip of the iceberg" expression; it's far more complex problem than what you see.
*hugs*

He's just looking for an out right now and you're it, it sounds like to me because whatever the real issue is he doesn't want to face it. Stay strong for your mom.

He sounds like a real **** to me and your mom is better of without him. don't feel guilty, raye, he's an **** if he can't accept that you're gay.

Just be there for your mom. I'm sorry you guys are going through this. Stay strong.

*hugs*

I agree with everyone else about there being more to it and him using that as an excuse. I sure am glad your mom picked you ;0)

I'm posting this only to strengthen what everyone else said previously.
He has other reasons behind his sudden hatred. Don't take it personally.
Be strong and support your mum.